Q: I'm spending the weekend. When should I arrive? What do I need to bring?

A: You can arrive at camp any time after 5PM Friday. If you need to get there earlier because of your flight, that's OK too, just let us know in advance. Please bring athletic clothing, a bathing suit, towel, sneakers, clothes for Shabbat dinner, clothes to wear to the rehearsal dinner and clothes for the wedding, sheets and a pillow. We will have all the athletic equipment you need.

Q: What are the accommodations like?

A: For those who went to sleepaway camp, Camp Laurelwood will likely feel very familiar. Most of the cabins/bunks hold 12 campers and 2 counselors during the summer. All cabins have bathrooms and sinks. When we get a final count of who is staying with us, we will create housing assignments. We will put you with people we know you like, or think you should get to know!  We will most likely put 6 people in each cabin so no one will have to sleep on the top bunk beds unless they especially want to. If you are staying in the cabins you MUST bring your own sheets or a sleeping bag and pillow. Camping gear will be just fine. If you are coming from far away and can't carry sheets and pillows, let us know, as we will have a limited supply. 

Q: Did you say bunk bed? 

A: We did!!!

Q: How big are the beds?

A: Twin sized. Dont forget sheets or your camping gear!

Q: Where will I shower?

A: Most people will shower in the shower house. If you have never showered in a shower house, this is an experience not to be missed. The shower houses were just renovated, and we will be the first to use them. We will set up separate men's and women's times for those who prefer single sex showering, but don't worry, the showers have stalls and curtains for your privacy. You might want to bring flip flops to use as shower shoes. 

Q: I want to stay at camp, but I can't imagine using a shower house. 

A: Not a question, but we may have an answer. Camp has very limited accommodations in some nicer cabins with in-suite showers and full sized beds. UPDATE: at this time all of the nicer cabins have been assigned.

Q: How do I know what bunk I'm in?

A: When you get to camp and check in, you will be provided with your bunk information. Please make sure that you have reserved your spot through this website if you plan on staying! At this point- the camp has already required us to give a final count- so if you RSVPd that you were sleeping at camp, we will get billed for your lodging. Please take care of this if you haven't already.  

Q: I'm not the camp type. What are my other choices? 

A: There are many bed and breakfast options in Madison and neighboring Guilford, CT. See the location section of our website for links. 

Q: Can I pitch a tent?

A: Yes! Want the camp experience but with more privacy? Camp is full of lovely spots for tents. The price per person is the same as those staying in the bunks and you will still be assigned to a bunk.

Q: How much does it cost to stay at camp? How do I pay? 

A: $55 per person per night. Payment can be made through this website...but not yet, because we haven't set it up. $55 includes a bed to sleep in (bring your own linens!), all meals and use of the whole camp. The price is the same for those who chose to camp in a tent.

Q: How do I get to and from camp? 

A: We encourage you to carpool if you are driving. If you are coming from the city, we encourage you to take Metro-North to New Haven. From New Haven you can take a taxi or Uber to camp. It is a 20-30 minute ride. The estimated cost of an Uber to camp is $34-44. Try to share with other people getting off the train. The Metro-North Schedule can be found here. We have arranged for a bus to pick people up at the New Haven Train Station at 6:30 PM. To ride on it, you will have to take the 4:11 train from Grand Central. We know this will be to early for many people to get out of work on Friday, but it is what we could arrange. UPDATE: We have a return bus for Sunday! It will leave camp at 7:30PM and will head all the way back to NYC!!!!!

Q: What is the attire for the wedding? 

A: We know the wedding is at a camp, but we want you to get dressed up for the occasion. Wear something you'd wear to a typical Sunday afternoon wedding. Dresses and/or suits and ties. Wear dancing shoes that you can walk in on varied terrain. 

Q: What is the attire for Shabbat dinner? The rehearsal dinner?

A: We haven't made any rules about this. We imagine people will wear all kinds of things!

Q: Won't it be hot?

A: We hope to have a warm/hot, sunny weekend, but June in the Northeast can actually be quite chilly. Bring layers.

Q: What kind of food will be served?

A: The camp will provide all meals other than the wedding. The meals will be simple, healthy, and filling. Think eggs and bagels for breakfast and sandwiches for lunch with plenty of fruit and salads. There will be snacks and drinks available at all times. We will be giving out reusable, BPA-free water bottles rather than bottled water out of respect for the environment. We hope you will stay well hydrated by refill these bottles many times over the weekend and in the years to come. We will be hosting Shabbat Dinner and a rehearsal dinner BBQ with meat and vegetarian food. The wedding will be dairy/fish. 

Q: I have dietary restrictions. Can you accommodate me?

A: Yes! All food will be kosher, and much of it will be vegetarian. Vegans should have no trouble, but let us know who you are. Camp is also experienced in providing gluten-free food as is our caterer, just let us know. 

Q: I was hoping to hit the beach at this destination wedding. Can I?

A: YES! There is a sandy shore by the lake at camp, and the real beach (the Long Island Sound) is only 5 minutes away by car!

Q: Can I organize a game or sporting event to satisfy my competitive edge? Can I lead a yoga session to chill out?

A: Yes! Let us know! We will be posting info at camp about more structured athletic events happening on Saturday. 

Q: Is this going to be a Jewish wedding? Is there anything I should know about that?

A: This is a going to be a Jewish wedding, filled with tradition. For those who have never been to a Jewish wedding, be prepared to have the most fun ever. Come very hungry and ready to dance very, very hard. There will be programs that explain everything that is happening wedding day, but if you have any questions, feel free to ask!

Q: What time will the wedding end?

A: If we run on time, the wedding will end at 7:00. Plan to stay until the band stops playing!

Q: Where is the after-party? Where do I stay the night of the wedding? 

A: We expect that most people will go home after the wedding so they can make it to work on Monday. We however, both have Monday off and will likely be heading back to NYC. For out of towners and New Yorkers who can't get enough of us, we will come up with something fun. 

Q: My question was not answered here. What do I do? 

A: Email us!